Why the "Quick Fix" Often Fails in Conflict Resolution

"A hot-tempered person digs their own grave.” (East African Proverb). When we react in anger; through temper tantrums or unrestrained behavior; we do not resolve conflict amicably; we often make it worse.

At the Center for Peace Education (CPE), we believe that lasting peace is never built on a foundation of impulsiveness.

When we react with unhinged emotions or temper tantrums during a conflict, we aren't just destroying properties, hurting others, and/or killing innocent people; we are burying the possibility of a peaceful solution.

This week at CPE, our students are learning an important lesson: values and principles are not expressed through impulsive reactions, but through thoughtful and disciplined actions.

In other words, our students are exploring the vital difference between reaction and resolution. In essence, peace is NOT built-in moments of reaction, nor a reflex of emotion, OH YES, but in moments of sober reflection guided by strong values, YES Indeed!

From Values to Action: How We Live What We Believe

Shifting one’s principles and values before, during, or after conflict is like a chicken running without its head (i.e., frantic, chaotic, and without direction) Oh NO! When we abandon what we believe in, we lose our sense of purpose and judgment!

Conversely, standing firm in our principles and values; no matter the circumstances; BUILDS confidence, strengthens trust, and fosters social cohesion.

Over the past week at the Center for Peace Education, our students have been learning an important lesson: COMPROMISING one’s principles and values can have serious consequences. 

It can DAMAGE one’s integrity and standing in society, and in many cases, it can ESCALATE conflict, leading to the destruction of property and even the loss of innocent lives; WHAT A SHAME, STOP NOW, & LEARN FROM THE EXPERTS!

That is why we are intentionally equipping our students with the knowledge, skills, and attitudes to understand this truth: OUR PRINCIPLES AND VALUES DEFINE WHO WE ARE! They reflect our identity, shape our character, and guide how we live and interact with others in our global community.

As we said in last week post, in essence, they are our internal compass (i.e., GPS), OH YES, guiding us toward the RIGHT PATH, even in the most difficult moments.

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Principles and Values: Our Compass to Peace